Our Little Love Story

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Hi everyone,

I usually don’t do these kind of posts but I’ve been getting a lot of emails and requests about Trev and I and how we met. So here it goes! I’ll try to be somewhat brief:)

First off I have to start by saying our story is not at all how I thought it would be like when I met the person I was going to marry and I thought the people that did what we did were CRAZY!! So don’t judge!

We got set up by a friend who is now actually our brother in law, (he just married my sister in feb) so that’s fun. But I would always cut my friend from home’s hair and he’d always want me to go out with his roommate. He’d always say “You’ll really like him, he uses a blow dryer to do his hair every morning.” haha. Trev might kill me for saying that.. Anyways I did not want to go out with Trev at all for whatever reason and I bailed about three times over the course of prob 6 months. I went on a date with another guy to a BYU soccer game where Trev was playing and the stands were all talking about how fast and good he was. He was cuter than I had remembered and I remember thinking I prob should have gone out with him.. But every haircut when my friend mentioned it I thought no for some reason.  But then we finally went out. I didn’t get ready for the date at all.. I thought if I just go out with him once then my friend and sister would stop bugging me to go out with him.

The first date was perfect.. haha. About 15 seconds in I was wishing I got ready and was hooked from there. We hung out everyday since our first date and you are going to freak but after a week I knew I’d marry him.

We were engaged a month later. And married less than 5 months from our first date. I know you probably think we were crazy! I always thought whoever a married I’d date for a year at least.. we both had long relationships 2-3 years so we both thought whoever we dated/married it would be like that, but that didn’t happen with us..

I was head over heels for him and still am. I know there are multiple people out there that you could marry and I think that’s true but Trev is the one I was suppose to marry. He really is my soulmate. It’s hard to give advise on who/if you should marry someone because everyone and every situation is so different but just don’t settle. There were lots of guys I dated that I could have married and been happy with, but it wouldn’t be like the love Trev and I have for each other. When I was younger I had someone tell me to write down 10 things that I wanted in a husband and if I was a good person I’d find those 10 things. I did and thought there’s no way one person has all of these things but okay.. haha. The list grew too as the years went on to about 20. I looked back at that list after I met Trev.. He has every one of them! Don’t settle girls!!:)

Trev is the kind of person I hope I can be one day. He inspires me and allows me to live my dream every day. I’m so blessed to be married to him and love him so much!

XOXO

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3 Responses to "Our Little Love Story"
  1. Johanna Chavez says:

    Love this. Simply love this story. Thanks for sharing. What’s crazy is i related to much of your story (except for he and i have dated a year) when you said you knew he was the one, and the fact that you knew you’d marry him after one week of knowing him. Josh and i had one date and have spent everyday together since. Beyond happy for you!
    P.s. Love your blog.

    XOXO,
    Johanna

    • Stevie Henderson says:

      Love you Jo! and love seeing how happy you are! He is a cutie and you make a darling couple! Miss you!

  2. Melissa Winegar says:

    Steph! I thought I knew your story from your bridal shower, but somehow I missed how quickly you got engaged! Very similar to kirk and I. We met Jan 14. After our third date (all in the 1st week) I came home and told my mom that she needed to get to know this boy because I was going to marry him. We got engaged march 14th, married june 3rd! So great for you two!! You two are adorable and I love seeing how happy you two are. I’m glad you found each other. I love your blog and I wish I could do my hair!! I just pinned your hair tutorial…I will try. Maybe someday you can show me since I’m totally retarded when it comes to hair (and makeup and everything girly…) Love you and Trevor so much.

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